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My girlfriend is 18 weeks pregnant and we tried to get her an abortion over one month ago but the doctor at the clinic told us she needs a medical exam first and the earliest appointment for the exam with her primary physician was last tuesday. We went back to the clinic with her medical records and the doctor scheduled the abortion for monday but he prescribed her some pills she has to take for a few days before the abortion. l was not in the examination room so i'm not sure what he told her. She picked up the meds and started taking them yesterday and she wo not elaborate and tell me what they really are. She says they relax her uterus to prepare her for the abortion. What the heck does that mean?? I am a little worried. What could the pills be and what do they have to do with the abortion? They wo not harm her, right? l trust the doctor but i'm just curious what they are and of course l love my gf and hope that they are safe!
Do not even start with the pro-life crap. My girlfriend and l are both pro-choice and to me it is just an unwanted fetus. And it was HER decision to have an abortion, l never tried to talk her into it. She mentioned it, and l told her l respect her decision and will support her. She is having an abortion on monday and that is FINAL. We are both 100% sure this is what we want so stay out of it. Either answer my question, or mind your own business! I am reporting all of the pro-lifewhich are irrelevant to my question!

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

THE PILLS ARE PROBABLY THEM ABORTION PILLS MAN UUUMMMMMM SO WHEN SHE DOES GO TO THE DOCTORS OFFCE ALL SHE NEEDS TO DO IS GET CLEANED OUT THE ITS ALL A BIG PROCCESS SHE TAKES THE PILLS THE FETUS DIES OFF AND SINCE THERE IS STILL THAT FETUS IN HER SHE NEEDS TO GET IT TAKEN OUT DONT WORRY MAN YALL KNOW WHEN YALL ARE READY TAKE YOUR TIME

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

Without seeing them it is impossible to say. They could be high dose hormones. The womans cervix closes up & forms a plug during pregnancy to ''hold'' the baby in. These medications maybe to soften the cervix so it is not as painful when they insert the dilating rods to perform the procedure.

If ur girlfriend wo not talk to u about it, it' suggests she is not comfortable with something. Make sure she has plenty of support & counselling afterwards as such a late term abortion can have long lasting mental side effects.

There is always a risk with all medical procedures & I am sure they explained to her that there is a risk of infertility should she develop complications or infections. So u need to keep an eye on her after the procedure for several weeks.

This is a huge thing & if u both can make it through this u should be able to get through anything.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

You two are the ones having sex, if you're not ready to get pregnant stop! This whole thing she is going through is not going to be safe, do not fool yourself. If you really love her you will stop having sex until you're ready to be responsible for a baby.
You did not name the pills, so how should we know what they are?

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

WOW.to all the pro-lifers out there.it is too late for them to change their minds.not that they were going to.since she has taken the medication, the process has already began.the question was not what u think about abortion, his question was about the medication.i'm not sure exactly what they are.in the first trimester, many women choose to induce miscarriages by taking a certain medication given by abortion clinics instead of the D&C method.this is used only before 9 weeks gestation.i'm sure ur girlfriend is not telling you, because she does not want to explain what the medication does.i hope she is not having second thoughts, because, by now, it is too late.the decision has been made, & there is no turning back now.please make sure she goes to her follow up visit at the clinic.my cousin did not go, & she nearly hemorrhaged to death.my aunt had to take her to the ER due to all the blood loss.please be more careful.i know things happen.my daughter was on the 'pill' when she got pregnant, so i know they do not always work.but, u can 'double up' on protection next time.i hope ur gf has a full recovery.she may need postabortion counseling tho.be very attentive to her needs, & emotions, & behavior

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

Those pills are not safe for your girlfriend I had a friend who took
them and now has serious health issues. There is an after effect to the pills that will show up years later. Do not believe them when they say there is not !!!!!!!!

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

I pray that you and your girlfriend change your minds. That is a life inside of her. She is also 18 months! Please please please change your mind! So many people out there will be willing to have that child. My prayers are with you three.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

I would say, from a medical standpoint, that ur girlfriend is correct. I think it is literally something to get the uterus to ''let go'' of the placenta. The placenta is actual uterine tissue at this point, it is not a sac, per-se, it is more of an extension of her still..so to remove it with out causing her major hemorrhaging, they need to get the uterus to ''let go'' first.
She may be experience some painful contractions, maybe even some bleeding.
I am glad u r able to make a mature decision that is best for her & yourself. Please protect yourselves in the future.
(I am a mom, I have to say it. Do not report me:)

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

Sorry but I do not know the answer to ur question but I thought I'd just support u & tell u NOT to listen to any of the ignorant anti-choicers/Pro-FETAL-lifers.

Ultimately, it is ur girlfriend is choice because she is the one carrying the child but she is not a monster for doing this. You both r simply not ready for a baby & do not want one & should not be forced to have a child u do not want. I agree with what one of the commentors said; i also would NOT be able to give up a child & live with myself knowing that a child with my blood is out there being raised by someone else. Adoption is not so easy.

Regardless of what people say, Abortion is the RESPONSIBLE thing to do. Everyone makes mistakes. I think it is more responsible to have an abortion instead of have the baby & not be able to provide for it. Why does the child deserve to grow up being neglected just because its mother was too stupid to have an abortion? And no, ADOPTION IS NOT THE RIGHT WAY TO GO. Whatever anyone says, THERE ARE ALREADY MILLIONS (LITERALLY) OF ORPHANS OUT THERE. How do u know ur baby wo not be just another child growing up in miserable conditions without a family?

Every child should be planned. People will try to show u disgusting photos of aborted fetuses, but that does not prove anything. There r far more disgusting things out there. Also, it is been proven that a FETUS can not feel pain until AFTER 26 weeks. It does not even make sense to believe that a fetus can feel pain so early. Seriously, it is illogical to believe an embryo or fetus can feel pain. It is an UNDERDEVELOPED clump of cells. It is pain receptors r NOT developed yet & its brain is not advanced enough to process the pain. Also, if the pro-lifers care so much about pain, they would not eat meat. I am a strict vegan & think it is wrong to kill animals because they CAN feel pain. Anyway, do not listen to anyone. Abortion is the right choice for u so go ahead with it.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

I had a medical abortion, but these are probably the same. They are completely safe (safer than the actually abortion) and will actually relax the muscles so that they will be untense and wo not tear or cause internal bleeding during the process. I am sure she picked up some major pain killers too. The best of luck. This is a hard time, especially for your girlfriend even if she doens't know it yet. Take care. Peace.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

What to Expect Before a Surgical Abortion

Here is a list of steps u will follow in the health center:

1. Ultrasound - This will tell us how far along the pregnancy is. A surgical abortion cannot be performed if the pregnancy is too early to see on the ultrasound exam, further along than 17 weeks & 6 days, or located outside the uterus (an ectopic pregnancy).

2. Medical history - Before the abortion, we will go over ur medical history. Be sure to give us complete & correct information about ur health.

3. Talk about ur choices & make a final decision. We will tell u about the benefits & risks of ur decision & u will have a chance to ask questions. At this time u may also wish to talk about a method of birth control to use after the abortion. You will be asked to sign all of the consents that apply. Be sure that u understand all of the information & that all of ur questions r answered before u sign.

4. Have lab work done to see if u r anemic (low iron in ur blood) & to find out if u r Rh positive or negative. If u r Rh negative, u will need a shot of Rhogam. This is a medicine that keeps u from having problems with future pregnancies. There will be an additional charge for this shot. We can also test u for some sexually transmitted diseases & do a pap test.

5. Have the surgical abortion.

6. Rest in the recovery room before u go home.

Payment for the surgical abortion covers all of the above as well as:

* Osmotic dilator or misoprostol, if needed to soften the cervix;
* Medicines given to u to take at home;
* 24-hour emergency phone access to a health professional;
* Recheck visits at the same health center for problems related to the abortion;
* One pack of birth control pills or Plan B (emergency contraception), if desired.



this is what I found on planned parenthood.com. It does not say anything about pills before the abortion though. I am guessing its to make her uterus have contractions since she is so far along, she might have to do a partial birth abortion.

good luck

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

I do not know what the pills r for & I am prochoice to a point.. this pregnancy has passed that point. Did u know that YOUR CHILD right now can hear whats going on outside of the womb? Also Sensory development reaches its peak this week. The nerve cells serving each of the senses -- taste, smell, hearing, seeing, & touch -- r now developing in their specialised areas of the brain- so ur child will be able to FEEL the abortion happen.

I think u & ur girlfriend need to take a look at these pics & maybe rethink ur desicion.. there r MANY MANY couples out there who would die to a baby. There r couple who TRY to have a child but cant.. help them out.

And does ur girlfriend plan on having kids in the future? This abortion may make sure that does not happen.. she will be at higher risk for a miscarriage & could have all kinds of damage up there

In 2 weeks ur child can hold a hand like this:
http://caosblog.com/images/samualwpermission.bmp

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

The pills help kill the cells around the fetus, so that the abortion goes over smoothly. My sister had to follow the same procedure when she found out she was pregnent, but the baby was in her tube. They gave her pills to kill the cells, & then a few days later they told her what would take place. She was not as far along as ur girlfriend, but that is basicly why it is done.

Do not listen to these people. They never know when they will be faced with having to make such a hard decision. If u & ur girlfriend r not ready to have children then I think u r doing the right thing. I would never give up my children to another family. that is crazy to sit back & even think about someone taking care of my offspring. then what happens when the child wants to come looking for you. I think it is ur decision, & i think that both of u r being really responsible in ur decision to not have a baby. I am sure when ur both ready then u will take the plunge. Enjoy sex, enjoy ur life together, & always be happy with ur choices. Good Luck

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

what about not getting the baby aborted and putting it up for adoption? There are people out there who would kill to have a baby that they cant have! Other wise you are just killing your son/dauthter that could have done something great in this world.

other wizes idk wat the pills r for

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

That sounds fishy to me. Are you sure they are not prenatal vitamins? Maybe your GF decided to keep the baby and was afraid to tell you? My sister had an abortion and I do not remember her taking pills, but I could be wrong. Maybe try getting a hold of the bottle to look up the name of the pills on the internet. Good Luck!

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

I am pro-abortion but 18 weeks along is a bit late to have the procedure, in my opinion. Do what u think is best. One thought, however, is that a blood test will determine ur girlfriend is blood type & whether she is Rh positive or negative. The Rh protein is made by the red blood cells of most women. These blood cells r considered Rh positive. Some women have red blood cells that do not produce Rh protein. These blood cells r considered Rh negative. Pregnant women who have Rh-negative blood r at risk of reacting against fetal blood that is Rh positive. Because a reaction can harm future pregnancies, Rh-negative women usually receive an injection of Rh immunoglobulin (RhIg) to prevent Rh-related problems after a miscarriage or an abortion. Be sure she gets this injection if need be. Best wishes.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

I did a little research for u on second trimester abortions. I know that they r much more dangerous than first trimester abortions, but other than that I do not know very much.
I really hope that the both of u r prepared for the emotional turmoil u will go through after this. (Mind u there is already no turning back). Please seek some counseling afterwards. A close friend had an abortion, & even 8 years later & after having some of her own children, it is still a very sore spot.
I am sorry for ur loss.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

You do not care enough about the life you're snuffing out, why do you care what the pills are?

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

I am really sorry that you asked this question here because you will get a lot of rude . I am also sorry that I do not know the answer, but I am sure the doctors know what they're doing and that she will be fine.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

At 18wks wow u two shouldnt do such thing. have u seen the baby. u know there have been birth at 20wks & the baby survived so what r u doing ot the baby.Think about it dont do it.I had my first at 19 & she is healthy & strong yes financially I was secure but everything will be better someday.the love of a child u cant replace that with anything..

Any way it is ur decision so if this is the best thing u can do go ahead & do it...hope none of u become resentful of eachother..

Good luck hope u make the best decision.'

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

Well if she wanted you to know, she would tell you. Do you think she is going to want to share anything with you again? What do you Care???? You dont seem bothered by an abortion, so you really dont care about her body or mind...Do you think that the abortion is not going to hurt her? I hope its a anti depressant, cause that is alot to have to deal with.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

Eat a gay fetus for Jesus!

Lori K, that was some good reading material, I laughed all the way through it , thumbs up baby! I love pro-lifers, no greater hypocritical morons ever walked the Earth, these are the ''people'' that should be aborted.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

me too at 18weeks my baby had been kicking for 5 weeks, had good heart rate, active body and was almost fully formed, my friend lost baby at 16weeks to miscarruage and it was just a tiny version of a newborn! i do not aggree with abortion but bedore 12weeks is at least a bit more humian! i lost 3 babies myself and i think its sad.. i now have a 8week old baby boy, at 17weeks i knew he was male, his daily routine and what he would be like once born..

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

The pills r to make her go into labor! Her body will think the baby is due & will be delivered.

Do u know that she is almost half way to a full birth? At this point it is too late to have a normal abortion. She basically has to deliver the under-developed fetus & the doctor will inject the baby in the neck to stop the heartbeat.

No offense.(and I am pro choice) but it is really creul at this time to have an abortion! Heck.Put the baby up for adoption. I have a good home.I will take him/her!

P.S. I got pregnant & married at 19, delivered at 20.And I've been married for 16 years! Please stop the medication & save this baby & ur girlfriend. SHe will regret it later on!

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

Do not let her have an abortion. Let the baby live and take responsibility and marry her. Abortion is the wrong thing to do because you are taking the baby is life for your own convienience.
The pills are probably muscle relaxers to expand the euterous and let them get in to her womb more easily. For encouragement, listen to ttb.org.
I agree with shon. let her have the baby and put it up for adoption. This abortion may have long term mental effects on your girlfriend.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

google the situation

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

It probably just dialates her and opens the uterus .Ive never heard of them giving them early though.Usually they just give them to them right before?
good luck!

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

Duh, abortion is NOT a safe procedure.they're sticking metal blades in her uterus!! Maybe they're anti-depressants.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

I though the pill was the abortion? There are two methods right? A pill and then the old way? I am not sure. Anyway if you two are still together why the hell are you allowing her or making her get an abortion? Just give the child up for adoption.

 

My girlfriend is having an abortion on monday but the doctor prescribed her some pills, what are they

If u r a big enough boy to have sex, create a baby & then decide to terminate the pregnancy near the end of the 2nd trimester, u r old enough to know exactly what is going to happen. There r a couple that require medications.

The D&E (dilation & extraction) is the most common type of second trimester abortion. During this procedure, the mother is cervix must be dilated much more than in a first trimester abortion simply because her baby is now too large to pull it from the uterus solely by using the suction machine.

After sufficient dilation is accomplished, the abortionist begins the D&E procedure by rupturing the amniotic sac which contains the unborn child. He then begins the process of dismembering the baby & pulling it out of the uterus in pieces. To do this, the abortionist uses suction as well as surgical forceps which basically act like a pair of pliers. He inserts this instrument into the uterus & starts to open & close it until a part of the baby or placenta is grasped. That piece is torn off & is pulled out. This process is repeated until the abortionist feels that the procedure has been completed.

Sometimes, the baby is skull is too large to pull out of the uterus, so the abortionist must first crush it with the forceps. The abortionist will know that the child is skull has been sufficiently collapsed when the baby is brains flow out of the uterus. Among abortionists this is called the ''calvaria sign'' & it signals that the skull will then be much easier to remove.

Once the abortionist has pulled out everything he can feel with the forceps, he will use a curette to scrape any remaining parts off the sides of the uterus. After that, the suction machine can be used again to vacuum up whatever debris is still in the uterus.

Throughout a D&E procedure, all of the extracted baby parts r placed on a tray where they r then reassembled. This is done to make certain that the entire baby is accounted for & that no parts r left behind.

One way that the D&E procedure is often made easier is by killing the baby a day or so before the procedure is scheduled. This extra step is generally referred to as a ''ditch'' & is accomplished by inserting a long needle through the mother is abdomen & into the heart of her baby. Then, a chemical agent - usually digoxin - is injected through the needle causing the child is death. The advantage of doing this is that the feticidal agent (digoxin) causes the child is body to soften, making the dismemberment & removal process much easier. Despite that advantage, however, ditching does have one potential downside. Because the chemical used to kill the baby is toxic, it is crucial for the abortionist to know that he has inserted the needle into the baby & not the mother. To verify that, the abortionist will sometimes let go of the needle before injecting the drug & see if it jumps around independent of the mom is movements. If so, he knows that he has hit the baby & can proceed. (This part of the ditching process is sometimes referred to as ''harpooning the whale'').

A variation of the D&E is called intact D&E. In this procedure, the baby is not pulled out in pieces but removed whole. Normally, the abortionist will use a feticidal chemical to kill the baby first or he will position the baby so that he can crush its skull. However, in some cases the baby will actually survive the procedure & emerge alive. In the abortion industry, live births r referred to as ''The Dreaded Complication.''

Since most Intact D&E abortions r performed on babies who r too young to survive once separated from the mother, the usual response to a live birth is to simply set the child aside & allow it to die on its own. The abortion industry calls this practice ''comfort care.'' In some cases, abortionists have been observed actively killing the child by drowning it, crushing its tracheal tube, or snapping its neck.

Another type of second trimester procedure is known as instillation. This procedure begins with the abortionist sticking a long needle through the mother is abdomen & into the baby is amniotic fluid sac. A substantial amount of amniotic fluid is then drained from the sac & replaced with either a saline or urea solution. This usually kills the child, but it may take hours during which some women report feeling their baby violently thrashing around. Photos of children killed by instillation procedures generally show massive chemical burns covering the child is entire body.

Once the process of killing the baby has been initiated, the mother is given drugs to induce labor so she will eventually deliver the dead child. Because there have been cases where babies have survived this process, some abortionists inject a drug into the baby is heart prior to delivery to make sure it is dead. (Urea has also been used as a prepping agent for D&E abortions. The urea is inserted into the amniotic sac but instead of inducing labor, a D&E is performed. The advantage of this is that the urea solution helps soften up the baby & makes it easier to dismember & remove.)

Another type of second trimester procedure is called induction. The mother is given a drug - usually prostaglandin or oxytocin - that causes her to go into labor. Often the abortionist will kill the baby at the same time in order to avoid the possibility that the mom will deliver a live baby. In other instances, the labor-inducing drug which was given to the mother will kill her baby. However, it is well established that live births r a real possibility with induction procedures. As in the case of Intact D&E abortions, these procedures r usually performed on babies who r too young to survive outside the womb. Again, if the baby emerges alive, the usual response is to set the child aside & allow it to die on its own, or for the abortionist to kill it once it is delivered.

The final methods of second trimester abortion r hysterectomy & hysterotomy. Of the more than one million American babies killed by abortion every year, approximately 5000 r destroyed in this manner. The relative rarity of these procedures is driven by the fact that they have a higher incidence of maternal complications & death than other second trimester abortion methods. During a hysterectomy abortion, the mother is entire uterus (including the baby) is removed & the baby usually dies during the procedure. The hysterotomy abortion is similar to a cesarean section. The abortionist does not remove the uterus, but cuts it open & removes the baby. If the child was not killed prior to removal, it is set aside to die.